I signed up because I appreciate older… I signed up because I appreciate older and accomplished guys but I don’t get as much attention as I want because many are telling me they don’t like my goth look but I have met a few guys that are still wanting to meet.

One needs to be very careful when using… One needs to be very careful when using Secret Benefits (SB). For those that are researching whether or not they should join SB, males need to buy tokens. Tokens are used to initiate messaging with a woman, respond to a woman that emailed you first, get access to a woman's private photos, and get access to a woman's private answers. From my understanding the woman on SB do not receive any portion on the tokens someone spends to communicate with them. From my previous experience on SB and this last experience it would seem that many of the women that are on SB are fake. The reason I say this is that a woman, verified or not, will view my profile and send me a message. I will spend 10 tokens to read their message, which is usually a generic message, write them back, and maybe get a response 5% of the time. This from "women" that have viewed my profile and initiated contact. This does not include the countless number of "women" that just favorite me and/or send a message without viewing my profile. Previous experience in replying to these messages have a much less respond rate than messages from "women" that have viewed my profile. These I suspect are bots created by SB in order to have the male members spend and buy tokens. If you are planning on joining SB I have a few recommendations to help save tokens. Instead of sending a message to a woman favorite her instead and see if she views your profile. Don't open a message from anyone that has not viewed your profile. Final not is the SB has another site called SugarDaddy.com. This site has all of the same profiles as SB does.

First class dates with gentlemen=happiness What can I say? Friend recommended and super thrilled to be meeting such great guys that have been nothing but gentlemen to me. I’m getting lots of proposals which is overwhelming but I must admit that I’m loving the attention!

Went on a few dates with guys who… Went on a few dates with guys who claimed to want to build a proper relationship but seems they would have been more suited to other apps for random one nighters style of things. But hey guys lie whatever app you use... but then a real genuine kind and funny man found me and swept me off my feet. I can't believe how much we have in common despite very different personalities and ages, we complement each other so well. We have been inseparable since our first date, he moved in within a month, helped me to care for my dying dad in my home, has helped to support me in raising my kids, been on holiday together. We have shared every moment of joy and sadness together in the past year, and I can only pray that we have many more years together.

Scam What a scam they use old profiles and some how the old profiles say they are online,I've spent hundreds of dollars messaged up to 50+ girls and Maybe 3 answered me. These so called girls will message you then you have to use your credits to open the message up you respond to them and don't answer back,this site should be shut down total SCAM!!